things to work on: I

By nature, I am not a kind person. I simply wasn't born with the inkling to be kind to people. I can be, anyone can, but I come off as an asshole, because I am one.

I guess for me the "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it at all" rule is a rule for me to live by, but I don't. I really have never cared what people thought of me, and I am always the first to think before I speak. Unfortunately, I've been doing that more now than ever and its affecting my friendships. I've crossed the line of being critical or occasionally crossing the line to constantly adding in my two cents and never having a kind look on my face.

I am making an effort to stop, because if I don't then I won't. Sadly its not in me to grow to be a kind person so I am going to have to force it.